Author: lazydog

I’ve been fighting to get a decent, ergonomic, size and weight appropriate chair at work since last September. After months of feet dragging on the part of my boss, human resources (yes, I got a doctor’s note) and the purchasing department, the cadillac, $1k(!) chair with the contour seat and lumbar support has finally arrived.… Continue reading Sniffing Chair Arms

Sleep late. Coffee. Blueberry pancakes. Yoga and relaxation. Shared shower. Serious full-body massage leading to er, um, you know. Nap. Walk the dogs. Lebanese food. Movie. Diablo. Bed.

Mel and I watched Eco-Challenge on USA Network every night this week. She’s into it, big time. This is the first year I’ve actually watched the whole thing. It’s pretty impressive and I quite enjoyed it. It takes some real courage, endurance and perseverance to get through a race like that, and of course, athleticism.… Continue reading Eco-Challenge

Here’s the ‘story for another day’ I alluded to previously. I was afraid to come out to my mother so it was more than a year before I told her about Mel and I. All the while, I’m feeling totally guilty for not telling her because everybody else knows… and no one is surprised. In… Continue reading Mom is da Bomb

When I fell in love with Mel, a long-time, close friend (a gay man) said he hoped that I wasn’t pursuing a lesbian relationship just because I’d given up on men. I assured him this wasn’t the case, I wanted very much to be with her. It was not because I didn’t have a boyfriend… Continue reading Slow as molasses, thick as a brick…